We all dream of love, but how often do we find ourselves not having the best time when it comes to love? Maybe we are daydreaming of finding the right one to finally have the happy ending we deserve. Today I want to share with you a love ritual! Are you curious to know more about it? Keep reading this article!
What is a love ritual?
A love ritual is a ritual you perform to connect and attract love! Yes, it’s easy as it sounds! It’s not dangerous and it’s a wonderful way to bring your knowledge and your tarot reading practice to a whole new level. When asking tarot for some love questions, we often find ourselves a bit frustrated and stressed out. This love ritual is here to help you find your way back into calmness, positivity and openness to get the messages from the tarot and to ultimately use them to change your life.
When to do a love ritual?
You can do a love ritual whenever you need it! If, for example, you want to do a tarot reading for yourself and your questions are about love, the love ritual should be performed right after the reading as the tarot reading is going to be the foundation of this ritual! If you are looking for some special day to perform your love ritual, you could do it on a Friday as that’s the day with the most loving energy. The best time to do a love ritual is at night. Make sure the place you choose to do this love ritual is a quiet place where you can chill out and spend some time alone focusing on the ritual only. Turn your smartphone off and just relax.
What do you need for a love ritual?
You don’t need anything that is too difficult to find! You just need:
- A red candle (symbol of love),
- a tarot deck,
- a journal (if you have one) or a piece of paper.
If you don’t have a red candle you can use a white candle. About the tarot deck, make sure you use a tarot deck you like, a deck you feel more comfortable with. This is a very important requirement as you definitely need to feel at ease when practicing your love ritual. To create a strong connection with your deck, try to spend some time with it on a daily basis before the ritual so you will have a better connection, but you also are going to know more your deck and its secrets. All this will put a strong basis to the reading and to your entire tarot reading experience.
About the ritual
The ritual is very simple! Light up the candle, take your journal or a piece of paper and commit to be truly present in the moment focusing on the question you would like to ask to the tarot. If you have more than one question, it’s okay! Write them all down but focus on one question at the time. If you are a bit uncertain about what kind of question you want to ask just take some time, meditate on it if it’s your thing, and when you are ready and you know what you truly want to know write everything down. Now take your deck, shuffle the cards while choosing one question from the questions list you created. Don’t forget to focus on one question at the time. Try using a comfortable script, such as “My dear tarot, I would like to know…” and then you can lay out the cards down. If you don’t have a specific question in mind you can use this love spread for this love ritual.
The love spread for the love ritual
- How am I right now?
- Who is the right person for me?
- What’s love for me?
- What should I do to find love?
When you see the cards, you should spend some time to truly get the messages tarot cards want you to know. I highly suggest for you to write which cards showed up down on a journal or on a piece of paper so you can come back to this when needed and to truly reflect on what tarot cards are trying to communicate. Write down how you feel about each card and then try to interpret the cards by noticing carefully each detail of each card. Then, if the meaning and the message is still quite unclear, you can go to a guidebook or to some online guide to help you interpret everything. The love ritual is done! You can blow off the candle and save it for another time, you can let it burn completely. If you can, keep the cards on display for a while to truly get their messages and use them as a reminder.
How to use the love ritual to change your life?
You can use the love ritual to change your life by following the tips and the guidance tarot cards want you to know and have. You should be open to what tarot cards are saying and also you should consider this ritual not as a way to know if you are going to meet your soulmate and that’s it! You should focus on why you want this soulmate in your life, how to attract more love into your life but also to know yourself to a deeper level so you will me more than ready to connect with someone if you already know who you truly are and what you truly wants! This is the incredible magic of tarot!
If you like tarot but you are not comfortable with doing a tarot reading yourself, I can help you with one of my professional readings!