I really think we all have a soulmate but what if we are still doubtful about it? In this case, we have to analyze and interpret some things in our life to see our love path more clearly and to really work on our present to embrace a better, brighter future. Let’s see how to know if you have a soulmate!
How to know if you have a soulmate?
To know if you have a soulmate, you should consider these things as signs your soulmate is there!
Before we continue
I provide these “do it yourself” articles for educational purposes, but it is strongly recommended that you consult an experienced tarot reader such as myself and allow me to help you with guidance and ideas on what paths are best for you.
This way you know it’s being done by someone experienced and knowledgeable and I’m also always here to answer your questions about relationships, marriage, exes, soulmates, and provide follow-up at no additional charge.
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Listen to your intuition
There is often a moment of recognition that occurs when you meet the right person; sometimes it is defined as love, at first sight, other times it is more like a strong sense of familiarity.
If that look, that meeting, transmitted intensity to you, if something inside you lit up at the first meeting (curiosity, feeling at ease, etc.), then there is a good chance that this relationship will bring growth in your life.
You are best friends
Maybe you think it’s a myth, but romantic partners can also be close friends. Indeed, a strong friendship is a foundation for a lasting love story. When you meet your soulmate, very often you also meet your best friend! This involves intimacy, humor, and complicity. What’s better?
You respect each other
Relationships often fall apart when two people try to change each other. On the contrary, soulmates respect each other on a fundamental level, knowing what the strengths and weaknesses of themselves and the other are.
So, if you really feel accepted by someone despite your oddities and neuroses and you too can unconditionally accept your partner’s flaws, then your meeting is probably pure.
You have the same vision for the future
This is one of the most significant signs because it is not only an indication of a deep bond but also one of the most reliable factors of a happy society. If you share key values, imagine your future in the same way, and want the same things from life, resentments will not emerge and the relationship will not sour.
So, when you meet someone who sees his or her life going the same way you imagine yours, you have found gold!
You challenge yourself
Your ideal partner not only admires you for much of what you do but also opens your eyes at all levels. This can be difficult, leading to strong discussions and sometimes distance, but the clash itself is a meeting and, in this case, it is fundamental, because it means that there is a continuous encouragement to get out of one’s comfort zone.
However, the unique combination of comparison and support provided by a soulmate is an important catalyst for personal development and growth. In the future, you will be sure to be grateful to each other for all the encouragement and kind solicitation given over the years! This is the most difficult challenge.
You fight for the relationship
No relationship is without conflict, even when soulmates reunite. There will always be obstacles and bumps on the road. However, if you are trying to cope with family difficulties, financial worries, illness, career uncertainty, or parenting problems, a couple destined to be together will continue to fight for the relationship.
Basically, you will find a way to fight together to make things better while protecting yourself and your relationship.
Balancing time together and time alone
The souls who recognize each other are able to find the right balance between time together and time for themselves. They trust each other and feel close even when they are doing separate things, rather than consuming themselves with jealousy or anxiety.
Being soulmates does not mean having the same lifestyle, the same passions, or wanting to do everything together, but certainly respecting the partner’s space and at the same time getting involved and involving the other in your passions is needed. It is a new way to get to know yourself.
After all, what could be better than dating your best friend, favorite lover, and biggest fan?
You feel authentic and comfortable
It is common to have a series of masks that are worn in different situations, in order to achieve something or adapt to a specific environment. However, one of the most satisfying things about being with your soulmate is that you don’t need to pretend, you can be yourself by showing your true nature.
Being genuine in this way allows you to open up to the deepest forms of intimacy and, very often, you realize this incredible potential from the first meeting. My advice, however, is to try to eliminate the masks and be yourself always wherever you are!
Ask tarot for some guidance or help
If you don’t know if someone you met is the one or if you are still uncertain about the kind of relationship and partner you need in your life, you can ask tarot for help with a four-card tarot spread.
Meditate on each question and see what the cards have in store for you. Remember that tarot cards are here to guide you and support you while you open up your intuition to your true desires and your true expectations. Many times, we think we want something while we are all about something else.
Maybe we are a little bit too afraid of admitting our true wishes and dreams so we shut them down, but they are still there, inside of us. Hidden within. With tarot cards, we have the chance to open up to our truest desires and become aware of them.
Here comes a four-card tarot spread you can use to learn if you have a soulmate.
- What does true love mean for me?
- What’s my perfect love life look like?
- How do I want to feel in love?
- What should my partner be like?
If you are already in a relationship and you want to know if that person is the one, simply ask this question to the tarot with a one-card spread and see what card shows up. That’s your message from the tarot cards!
One last tip
I would like to add something very important: before looking for your soulmate in the world, look for them within yourself, because only by loving, accepting, and knowing yourself deeply will you be able to eliminate conditioning and character infrastructures that do not allow you to stay in the flow of your destiny.
The concept of a soulmate does not have to be accompanied by the phrase “for life”. There is a time for everything, no one denies that it can be for life but surely every relationship and situation teaches what we need to learn.